Am I serious? Do I have children? Yes and yes, but as you may have guessed, I'm not throwing out the baby with the bath water. What I will be doing, in this new episode of Bitch, breathe! is wondering out loud how we can be connected to our communities without completely giving up our own goals and dreams. What (or who) are some of the distractions we voluntarily let reign our lives and energy and how do we extract ourselves when we need to, in order to take care of our loved ones AND ourselves? This episode of Bitch, breathe! isn't about being selfish. It's also not a women-victimhood narrative. It's about how to make the occasional tough choice to feed our souls.