It's all comedian Iliza Shlesinger's fault! No but seriously, when she talked about how some women hold on to pain, and examine and walk with it forever, I had to laugh out loud. She caught me! Maybe you're not one of those women, cudos to you! But if you are, this episode is for you.

Tune in to find out how we can tell whether we have started to identify with past painful experiences so much, they've become the fashion we wear and the words we speak.

By the way, speaking of holding on to pain. Write to me with any comments and feedback! Should you be going through a breakup or you just can't get over yours, also drop me a line and let's talk about it: ricardia@thebreakupcall.com

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